To start with, all of us can see that there is
a great lack of understanding between teenagers and adults and it's reason
would be the genetarion gap. That is because we, younger people tend to adapt
to the new evinrovment, than it was like 20 years ago. And here I am going to
give you fine examples of these situations happening with my family members.
Moving on that, i'd like to begin with about
what I argue with my parents. I usually argue with them about the things I
like, and they dislike, a good example of this would be luxurious cars. They
tend to think that luxurious cars are just for showing off and speeding, where
I disagree with them, because we all know it's up to the person who drives it
how he wants to use it. However, I do not argue with my parents about what
clothes I wear, where I spend my free time, about my school amars, friends, or
what time I should be at home, because they trust me and I do not let them
down, most of the times. Unfortunately, that's where my grandparents kick in. I
always argue with them about what time I should be at home, especially with
grandmother, because she's out of touch and totally out of date, sometimes it
feels like she's still living in 1980's. Always watching television about how
bad things happen to young people when they get out of home and don't come
back, I totally hate that and try to ignore it.
What is more, it's that most parents personal
life experience might help understand teenagers, due to that they, sometime ago
were aswell teenagers. Personally I didn't have problems with my parents about
understanding me about any problems I had. Moreover, there is a mistake that
most teenagers do quite often, they are thinking that they know better than
their parents, there might be true about some of the things, but we must admit,
that our parents know a lot more then us due to their life, and i'm not talking
about computers and stuff, but about ,
how to handle the life.
However, there is a quite a major problem in
this social world where parents think they know better on what we want, but
this is a complete non-sense. Of course by growing us, they saw the things we
like to do, but the only person of what we truly want is yourself and noone
else.
Moreover, there could be some actions that
might help to understanding between teenagers and adults or elders. For example
doing sports, watching TV, talk about how did your day go at school or work,
however teenagers shouldn't do everything with their parents. A good example of
this would be, hanging out with girlfriend or going to school, well the obvious
things. That would just seperate the bond. Moving on, talking about you think
and trying it to explain it, always helps, because as I stated earlier due to
their personal experience they can always give advice, and you can confide in
them.
Taking all things in consideration, there are
quite a lot of problems in society between the teenagers and adults aswell as
elders, but there always quite a lot of ways to get past them. You should
always respect your family, maybe follow in one of your family footsteps
aswell. Despite the age difference, they can always share something that you
don't know and lend a hand.
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